It’s important that decisions regarding child attendants are made early on so that parents have the opportunity to prepare them for their role. Flower girls should be between the ages of 3-7. An 8 year old can have the title of junior bridesmaid and any younger than 3 and the little princess is just as likely to freeze rather than smile down the aisle!
It is most appropriate to choose a child
from the family or a godchild of the couple over friend’s children. However if
you have a special child in mind and feel you may need to provide special roles
for a number of other children as well consider appointing some child ushers or
depending on age and ability have them hand out programs, or packets of rice or
confetti for the end of the ceremony.
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Luna Luna Xanadu Dress looks beautiful on any little Flower Girl |
The Bride should choose the dress however it is the flower girls parents who are responsible for purchasing it, along with shoes and other accessories. The decision should be made in conjunction with the Flower Girls mum who will foresee any potential problems (e.g. a Flower Girl who refuses to wear a certain colour or finds a certain design or fabric itchy). It is best to pick out a very special dress that could be worn again for other celebrations.
One of the fun things about Flower Girls is
their dresses need not match the rest of the bridal party- you may choose a
dress in line with the colour theme of your wedding or go for a classic white,
ivory or powder pink. Pretty Princess has some very special dresses available
just perfect for Flower Girl duty. We also offer free postage for orders over
$150!
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Luna Luna Glitterati Dress |
Ensure the entire outfit is organized well before the day, it will help the Flower Girl’s confidence if she can get dressed up: dress, shoes and all- to practice ‘the walk’ up and down her hallway.
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Little Leona Princess Pleat Dress |
Just like the Bridesmaids the Flower Girl should receive a little gift from the bride on the day. A piece of jewelry to wear on the day is a lovely choice or alternatively consider choosing something that will not only be treasured but will also keep the little princess entertained at the reception? A special doll like our Alimrose Designs LolaDoll, or perhaps a Fiesta Crafts Royalty Finger Puppet Set- she will already be feeling like a real live Princess on the big day so will probably be keen to play royalty at the reception!
On the Big Day ensure there are extra pins, comb and hairspray available for any last minute hair fixes on fidgety and playful princesses! It is best to leave the dress until the very last minute to guard against accidental spillages or scuffs. Remember that a bored Princess won’t make for an enthusiastic Flower Girl- make sure that she has plenty of ‘clean’ activities to keep her occupied in the lead up to the big moment- puzzles are ideal, steer clear of texta’s and crayons and stick to pencils for any colouring in to ensure clean hands and a safe dress!
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Sarah Louise Ballerina Dress |
Remember that no matter how the Flower Girl comes down the aisle- smiling or not, walking the whole way or carried some of it- all your guests will find her little personality absolutely precious.